Wednesday, October 31, 2012

My HOST file problem, when you can not receive request from certain servers

I have been blocked from Google.com and Facebook.com for days, though I can still use most of the applications from Google.com.sg, the Gmail, unfortunately, can be only accessed though google.com's server, that hurts!

Finally turned out my host file was rewritten by some anonymous guy--I tried dozens of ways to fix the system problem, just ignored the simplest one, shame.

I will reserve my right if you are doubting it's because I am watching too many porns in my laptop, that's.....not true.

Cannot talk too much now, since everything back on track now, will post my long-drafted blog soon, looking forward...to be continued

Sunday, October 21, 2012

[PLAN] WALK THE TALK! Start Working Out Again

Notes: This gonna be the first post of my long term 'PLAN' series.

One day I was in a frantic rush on the way to the office, the 132 bus passed me by with an speed of sound(you would have the same imagination when you got a same situation like mine), it then was about to stop in the nearest stop (around 80 meters away from where I stood at that time), 'Go and get it!', I made up my mind  and start chasing after that big boy with an ultrasonic velocity! Then, after 40 meters I gave up(Yes, I was that good, please don't judge me), the bus still seemed so far way and getting far and far and far away after the throttle loose...

And it was like I just finished a marathon(though I was never in a marathon, or even half marathon), I was totally exhausted after 40 meters' all-out sprint, what a shame.... What happened to me?! 

I used to be one of the gym bunnies(straight way), since my fresh year of college, I paid to the fitness club every month, and from the junior year, I started to work out and follow the fitness menu systemically every other day or even successively. It did 'work out' as it successfully reshaped my body, I was no longer a meat ball as I used to be in the last 20 years. Watching your own body 'reconstructing' was so awesome, and I was addicted literally.

If there is something I can blame to for my fall, it must be my meniscus surgery, I had it on April this year, and had to take a long rest without any physical activity for almost two months. After that, I became so cautious and getting more and more used to the days without the full of sweat body building, running, push ups, bench press, tons of barbells, while at the same time I still ate like an elephant!

Since I came to Singapore, there is even more excuses facilitated me to evade:
  • The Gym was so expensive even in campus. True.
  • I lost my swimming trunk, and it was unreasonably expensive to buy a new one. True.
  • The girls in the other room in my apartment occupied every single space in the living room, how can I do push ups when I can hardly stand?!  True.
  • I was just too busy and had my two hands full already, I got an interesting part time work off campus which I always pushed myself to follow the business stuff even after office time(I cannot help myself check the Gmail every 2-3 hours, it must be a modern mental disease), I got another assistant work in campus for CELC NUS. In the same time, I got 4 modules(normally need 5 hours to get fully prepared and one extremely time consuming and complicated project. And it took me one hour at least to go to office or campus in most of the time. I just had no time. True.
Looks like I am really a busy guy, huh? But am I really so busy that I cannot even squeeze a 10 mins for exercise? NO WAY!

I read a really funny article from TIME magazine several days ago, introducing how the vice president candidate Paul Ryan steels several minutes a day from his super busy schedule to implement his own working out plan, like this:


















I am not a pro to either Obama team or Romney team, but I do admire Paul Ryan for his 'WALK THE TALK' spirit, how can I keep finding myself excuses after seeing a politic actually doing something practically? 

So from two days ago, I have made a list for my long term 'WORKING OUT NEVER DIE!' plan, here it is:
  • Never use the escalator when you can mount the stairs!
  • No food after 8pm!
  • Take a 30 mins jogging in AMK park every other day(Which I have done once last night).
  • Groups of push ups and other no-fitness-equipment moves on the those no-jogging days(which I just did it half an hour ago).
  • Stretch myself from time to time when working or studying.

This is going to be a long term and I will keep blogging about it to let you know how good it works out.

Like flowing water, life is perpetual movement!True!


Wednesday, October 17, 2012

I've Hit My Ceiling? You Are Your Own Upper Bound!--How to Keep Learning A Second Language

In any case, I have to admit two facts:
  • English is just my second language , to compete in such an international and multi-cultural environment, it is far from good enough.
  • No matter how hard I try, I may never be able to pull up to those native speakers, when I say native speakers, I mean those Americans, British guys, Canadians, Australians, or even most of the well educated Singaporeans and Indians (Most Chinese guys ignore the fact that India inherited meritocracy education system from Britain, thus those who are able to afford the tuition fee can communicate and work with others in English better than the average Chinese, don't know how can we be so confident to mock their accent).
These two facts are like unchangeable theorems that I may never get a chance to prove them wrong, while it doesn't imply I should not try my best to approach the ceiling! English has been of great interest to me for years, and I have never stop improving since my junior year in college:
  • Most of my Google RSS are in English (one of the major reason is I am really sick of the low quality and fickle Chinese media(both the online blogs and offline papers and magazines, the only two I am enjoying reading is Net-ease网易 and Zhihu知乎))
  • I tried hard to pass the Business English Certification certified by Cambridge University with a Higher degree.
  • I managed to get 3 8.0 points(4 in total) in IELTS.
  • I have been a member and administrator of Economic China for years.
When I made up my mind to Singapore, I got several reasons:
  • I can get scholarship which makes me more economical independent(which I am right now).
  • Bilinguality can relatively be a strength (at lease not a con) in Singapore, at least your fluency in mandarin can make up to your weakness in English to some extent(which total depends on what kind of industry you want to jump in as I see now). While if you go to US or UK(I don't give a shit to Australia since there are already full of Chinese and you get bored, passive and less aggressive easily, and I also eliminated Hongkong since Cantonese is still the major living and even working language there), it will probably be very difficult for you to find a job other than computer related or dish washing(kidding, but it does has a narrow range of choices).
  • Can go home quickly if there is any emergency.
  • Food is good based on my travelling experience before.(On June)
All in all, Singapore is the best trade-off I can ever expect as my major concern is still 'working in that place for 3-5 years after graduation'.

Actually what is on the track is that 'I am walking my talk', I used all the connections I can at this stage and tried to find as much information as possible online and after doing some trade-offs, I am now working in Executive Coach International as a marketing and business development intern, and I was also recommended by Mr.Morgan as an SELF Assistant in CELC, NUS. 

Despite the financial benefit I get from these works(which can roughly afford me to pay the movie tickets and dinner bills when hanging out with my girlfriend, you have my words, Yu.), these working experiences also provide me a flexible while also competitive environment to thrive, especially in Executive Coach International.

As I mentioned in the title of this post, I was expected to talk something about keeping learning a second language, and we are approaching nearer and nearer :)

Most of the time in ECI, I work with Kunqi(my supervisor) and Yuting(another full time intern), both of them were graduated from top universities in Singapore with honored degree, and also are equiped with tremendous soft skills:
  • Kunqi had been working as an Engineer(as I ought but do not want to be) and for government department for several years, what's more, as a life coach, she is excellent in communicating with people from different backgrounds and industries; multi-tasks, as well as working under pressure whilst still be positive and energetic.
  • Yuting, a quite simple and cute girl, is really dependable and cooperative, also quite good at writing, I am already one of her blog's fans, here is the first step of her SEO,  http://withloveyuting.blogspot.sg/ , check it out, unlike other soul chicken soups, her words is quite touching due to her sincerity.
It's the experience of working with these talented people makes me realize my lack of ability in operating English as a tool in business environment. I mean, I have worked for Netgains, and UCweb's international product team, both of them are English speaking workshops, while being a 'marketer' and 'business developer' is really different from working with geeks. It requires more dimensions of the use of a language.

Aiming at my existing weaknesses, I have made a list for myself, remember, even you cannot hit the mark(as good as a native speaker), at least you should try your best to hit your own ceiling!
  • Practice more on telephone speaking, I don't like making calls, I am even not that good at making calls in Chinese, so definitely I will do more in this part, I have already saved several great instructions to my Instapaper, but more importantly, I have to 'practice' more!
  • Be a better E-mail writer, my words in mails can be confusing sometimes especially when trying to explain something abstract, and my style of writing should be more business like. I am already working on this: I get a lot of chance to practice everyday, and I also use some phrases other people are using in business communication mails for reference.
  • Stop using bilingual dictionary, this is the first suggestion Mr. Morgan gave to me, thanks to IPAD's embedded dictionary, I am almost there!
  • Write more blogs, as what I am doing right now.
  • Make friends with  new words everyday, and look into the whole package of the use of this word.
  • Do spelling check all the time!
Talking about new words: I read an article written by  David K. Williams on my Instapaper today, called 'The Case for hire Under-Qualified Employers', really an inspired one, but I am not going to tell you the lesson I learnt from this article, but a word: GEAR.

Of course I know what does 'GEAR' mean, but I realized that I have never ever ever ever used this word in any of my articles or daily talk, so I think it's gonna be a great initiative to use this word in my post today! So I checked it out in my dictionary inside my IPAD, here it is:
  • as a noun, one of a set of toothed wheels that work together to alter the relation between the speed of a driving mechanism and the speed of the driven parts.
  • as a noun, informal equipment that is used for a particular purpose.
  • as a verb, design or adjust the gears in a machine to give a specified speed or power output.
  • gear down, change to a lower gear.
  • gear for, make ready or prepared: A nation geared for war!
  • gear up, equip of prepare oneself: The region started to gear up for the tourist season.
It's also quite fascinating to know that this word originated from Middle English, and came from Scandinavian in the first place, (You can easily distinguish a word is from north Europe or French, at least I may).

OK, really late now, to leave a happy ending to this post, please allow me to show off a little bit:  
I am doing my best to gear up for the bigger challenges!






Monday, October 15, 2012

Question for Today: The Best Time in My Life?

I told you guys I would post something about my transforming experience from Google Reader to Flipboard + Instapaper in my last blog, well, before that, I would just answer a question flashing over my head  two minutes ago when I just finished doing my laundry(it was raining cats and dogs in the afternoon, so...long story), anyway, here it is:


  • What is the Best Time in My Life?
Ummm, I enjoy spending every seconds with my parents, hanging out with my girlfriend, reading books or Google Reader now Flipboard + Instapaper, while above are all just 'behaviors', what I am really asking myself is 'What was the specific Time Slots/Duration I enjoyed living in the most?', the answer did not take me a lot of time to think through: July to September, 2011, right, when I was in India. Let me just make it straightforward:

  • I had a well paid job, which can afford me to rent a bunk in the urban area, buy groceries(lots if junk food), have dinner with friends in some 'luxury' restaurants(compared with you-know-what-I-am-referring-to restaurants in India) from time to time, travel every week or bimonthly with redundant money for souvenirs(Kamasutra, my favourite one, for example).
  • I got an awesome roommate, Max, who is tri-lingeual (regret now only learnt some lame dancing move from him, instead of some provocative French(which I am learning by myself right now from apps) or German(which I really have some interest but don't know how to start) ), and also a open mind 'white trash' addicted to Chinese culture and business a little(I still owe him a internship, and don't know how to make up since I am in Singapore right now), most worth mentioning is, I really learnt a lot of great personalities and codes of conduct for reference.Miss his smile (in straight way).
  • Got to know lots of multi-cultural friends, who inculcated me with impressive 'Alcohol' and 'Bar' cultures.
  • Got a lot of chances going to dozens of awesome places, although got a little tired by endless travel agenda, so started enjoying reading alone sometimes in the end of those few days.
  • Tried some great food, while almost always order the same 'safe' thing.

OK, that's pretty much I can explain why that was my best time so far, then I realize now what make me a happier person:
  1. Being economically independence.
  2. A roommate who can  curse in different languages. 
  3. Friends from different backgrounds.
  4. Alcohol and pop(Punjabi) Dancing. (I dont want to show off  as a drinker, I was lame actually, Cola usually took over 75 percent of my glass).
  5. Travel, only when in good condition and when that place was really interesting, otherwise, I prefer spend my time sitting in sofa with books and chips.
  6. Food, don't be too spicy and don't look strange please.

You see, that's also a way to discover myself, now I understand myself better, try it out by yourself, see what you really like in your life.

To be continued, next blog will be Google Reader and Flipboard + Instapaper, I promise, unless there is some strange idea strikes again.

And I got a 25 free space from Dropbox, would like to talk about this promotion in the future blogs since I am quite curious how much does 1GB space cost in the server side...








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